Interracial dating black and mexican
Dating is tough; and interracial relationships come with their own special type of drama.
Whether you’re currently dating “outside the team” or just curious about what it’s like, we’ve got some gripes that sistas in this situation will probably understand.
Image Source: Sometimes social gatherings are awkward: “I can see why he likes you.
You’re not like other black girls.” Not all of us get to our post-racial place at the same time.
If this is the first time his friends have hung out with a black person, the interracial learning curve can be steep.
Image Source: Sometimes your crew doesn’t do any better. So why not try out “N***a” in a rap song or join you when you complain about how “black people are always…” But even several years in, things can get awkward pretty quickly.
Get ready to be the go-to person for questions about his race, your race and what happens when the two races get together. Image Size: How can anyone not have seen “The Color Purple? Image Source: It crosses everyone’s mind when you first start dating. Sometimes you just have to roll your eyes and play through.” It’s time to pick out some Saturdays to introduce him to all the classics he’s missed like “Harlem Nights” and “Friday”. What if an argument gets heated, things turn racial and he drops an n-bomb. Image Source: Date a man without so much as a two-step and it puts a cramp in your clubbing days. It’s time to find something else to do on Friday night and save the clubbing for girls’ night. If you’re just branching out into your own interracial relationship, get ready to be real sick of hearing people hum it, whistle it or ask you if you’ve seen it (for the 7th time).Image Source: Some people can’t tolerate tobasco but you put that on everything.Other people love mayonnaise in a way that you’ll never understand.
Kitchen arguments and recipe modifications are just part of the bargain. Sometimes it only loves black women: their chocolate skin, their hair, how “sassy” they are…
If he’s more into cooing about the color of your skin than getting to know you, he may love what you represent and not who you are.